Man, 49, Zuid-Holland

Pragmatic, engaged, and communicative man seeks observant, warm-hearted woman with humor and openness.

He referees matches at a national level, cooks elaborate multi-course menus monthly, and enjoys conversations that flow effortlessly, finding connection in small, thoughtful moments.

As an IT manager in healthcare, he combines technology with humanity, making systems accessible while keeping the people behind the screens in mind.

A good match for him is a woman who, like him, approaches the world with curiosity and a sense of perspective, valuing shared discovery as much as the outcome itself.

Whether it’s a road trip without a fixed plan, an evening of meaningful conversation, or simply enjoying music together, he seeks someone to share life with—not perfectly, but with mutual appreciation and understanding.